[frowns at the thought. he's sure that Lan Wangji would have a very sincere conversation with her and she would listen to the whole thing, and then promptly ignore everything he said except when she wanted to harass a Wei Wuxian about it. his entire body language screams no thank you]

No. It's all some bizarre game to her and she's just decided we're all playing by her rules or something, I don't even know what she's talking about when she goes off like that. It's better to not get involved at all.